So, on the 6th of December I received in the mail documents from my ex-husband. He is once again taking me back to court to ask for access to the boys. This is the 5th time in almost 5 years, its getting quite tiring.
Just to give some background.....he was charged not once, but 3 times, during our marriage for assault. He was given 6 visits in the summer of '06 but only made it to 3 of them. After that (Oct/Nov 06) he was granted reasonable access on reasonable notice & never once exercised it. In 09 I was once again brought back to court with him saying that I was denying him access, but he NEVER tried to arrange anything. At that point he agreed to not have access if I agreed to not ask for child support. NOW after all this, he wants access. He states....the child is of the age now that it would be beneficial to the child to have his father around. HELLO!!! What about the last 4 years of his life?? It was barely 6 months ago when he stated he doesn't have the financial means to commit to a regular schedule for visits.
Anyway, court is tomorrow. I can show 3-4 mistakes made by him when he filed his paperwork for court. A big one.....I NEVER got 30 days to file my response. So my partner & I are going into court tomorrow & we're hoping for a judgement in our favor. If not, maybe the courts will adjourn it all til the new year & by then maybe my ex will have lost interest in persuing this. Stay tuned.....will give updates tomorrow. Wish me luck.
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